OK, total heart break...
These are the steps I did to make it NOT work... so hopefully you won't follow a fool
1. Pulled a working HP tower with XP Pro SP3 and a DVD ROM
2. Installed SYBA SD-FW323-3I PCI Firewire card
3. Booted PC and check device manager, FW ports good to go, drivers auto-loaded
4. Put in the M-Audio CD with the FW410 NOT connected, readme specifically states NOT to have it connected during software install, ran the file fw410_10013_cd.exe, installed without issue, then it prompted for a reboot, I shut down PC
5. Now I connected the 410 and turned on PC (still used an external AC adapter), then interestingly, it autoloaded one driver and then accessed the CD and auto loaded another with "Bootloading ROM" (or a similar message, happened fast), then it autoloaded a 3rd drive
6. All loaded great, in XP device manager it showed the 410 under "Audio" and it had under the driver info:
Driver Date: 09/30/2003
Driver Version: 5.10.0.5008
7. At this point I saw no way to get firmware version in XP as no 410 control panel is installed, just an "un-install" option under the FW410
DONE WITH PC
8. Booted QS G4 (FW410 NOT connected) and ran: Firewire 410 v1.0.1 build3
9. Prompted for reboot, connceted FW410 and reboot
10. Opened FW410 app, Same weird shit
bootloader: // (4-dot matrix symbol)
Firmware: // (4-dot matrix symbol)
No go, failed