I will try to explain it better...
Every time you change ANYTHING on a mac (more/less ram, graphics card, etc) is good to press P+R+Apple+Alt until it bongs for at least 4 times the cycle. That is called reset parameter ram or reset PRAM.
1 Reset Pram
If it dont bong or the battery is empty, or the ram had broke or a card had broken or the motherboard.
2 Empty the mac (no pcis and let 1 or 2 memories be there) and try with another know working card (the one from the B&W). It should work.
3 If still no bong, unplug the computer from the outlet, the motherboard from the PSU and the battery (good momment to test the battery with a multimeter) and let the mac unplugged one day.
4 Still no bong? Swap the memories you left behind in step 2 with the ones in the G4.
5 Tripple check the cables from the PSU, maybe some cable is naked (no plastic around) and it make a short-circuit, turning down the Mac
6 Still no bong? Install a MacOs9/MacOsX in a harddrive with VNC (to make headless) with the G3 (preferable a ATA disk) and swap that drive in the G4.
Explanation. Sometimes PRAM corrupts itself when swapping parts. This thing happened to me 3-4 times before, when installing usb nec cards, sonnet tempo, ram and "pc supposed to work"graphics card. Once it broke my Ata33 channel, and other my Ata66 channel. And other times making the "I wanna bong but I turn off before" other times. After some tears and the G4 feeling sad unplugged it repairs itself alone (?)